Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Our Last Post

The story of Karis is not yet complete, but she is now completely part of the Chau family. She fully exerts herself and lets her will be known in the face of her siblings w/o holding back :). So we figured we should start a new blog for the entire Chau Family. You can check it out at http://4chaukids.blogspot.com.






Here's a few photos we took of the 4 together. I'll have you know, we had to take over 20 pictures to get even a decent one. Kari just doesn't think it's all that fun to be piled in the laps of 3 other squirming kids and then being told to smile. She's just fine taking a photo by herself though!


Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Settling In


The past two weeks have flown by and we're thankful we've survived them :). It was our intention to update our blog right when we returned, but it was much easier said than done! It's been a whirlwind, yet God has been faithful and good - as He always is! As I sit back and think over the past two weeks (am I actually having time to sit back and think???), I am reminded at God's faithfulness to answer many prayers we've had from before and during our trip to China. After our return we were so encouraged to hear how many of you had been praying for us during our trip. I guess we failed to realize that anyone was actually taking the time to read our blog and taking the time to lift us up in prayer. Yet we have seen the answers to so many prayers, we KNOW God has been faithfully listening and answering the prayers of many.

We arrived safely at LAX after a 14 hour flight. Karis did wonderfully on the plane and was a great little traveler. An answer to prayer! We got through customs and immigration with little hastle and Kari immediately became a US Citizen. I wish we had some photos of our arrival at LAX, but my dad took all the photos and we've yet to get them from him (yes, it's been a true whirlwind as my dad left for Thailand on Sunday!). We did arrive to the open arms of our 3 children, my parents, mys sister and the many smiling faces of Pathway Bible Church family. What a wonderful way to arrive!


We must admit though, the jet lag for the next week though, was really tough for all of us. Mike had to start back to work after only one day home and the other 3 children were as energetic as ever since they didn't have jet lag. Mike, Kari and I often found ourselves all awake in the middle of the night, tired, but unable to sleep. And then we were like walking zombies during the day. Thank the Lord for his sustaining grace, as we made in past that difficult week!
I must mention though the ministry to us by Pathway Families was a tremendous blessing. They cooked dinner for our family for several nights. Every night we'd sit down and eat, I was SO thankful b/c I don't think my family would have been eating those nights. I was so out of it, it would have been really hard to buy groceries and make something decent to eat. God truly used the church body to minister to us that week.

So, we thought Kari would be thrilled to meet her 3 siblings, but instead her reaction was more like, "Hey, I thought I was an only child, what's the deal here?" She spent a week stiff-arming the kids and pushing, shoving or hitting them when they got too close. Thankfully a one year old can't hit too hard! The three kids though thought Kari was wonderful and still fight over who gets to feed her her bottle. After two weeks now, they seem to have won over her heart. She lights up when they enter the room and she's right in there rolling around with the rest of them. I'm sure hoping it will be that way for the rest of their lives. Lydia's reaction to a new sister has been great. We wondered if it would be a difficult jump for her to become a big sister ("jie jie" as they say in Chinese), but she loves it. She is constantly reminding me that she is the big sister and gets all the priveleges of being a big sister. She loves the fact that Kari sleeps in her room. Another answered prayer.

My little sister got married this Saturday - thus the continuing whirlwind for our family. I'll have to write more of my reflections on that later when I get some picts. For now I'll just say that we're thankful Kari handled all the new faces so well. She did great! Another answered prayer. Please join us in Praising God for his faithfulness and goodness to our family.

Monday, September 22, 2008

We're Coming Home!

Today we leave for LA. Please pray for us, as we will be in flight for about 14 hours. We're really hoping the plane is not full so we can have a little more space. Our flight on the way here was packed and the seats were so close together that our knees were touching the seats in front of us! Having Kari on our laps in addition is going to be really tight!



Kari is doing great! We thank God for the time we've had to bond with her here. The little girl you'll soon be able to meet is a totally different person from the little girl who came into our lives kicking and screaming only two weeks ago. I'm sure there will be some more adjusting for all of us when we arrive home, but we're thankful for the smiles, snuggles, and laughter we've already been able to see. Here are a few photos from Day 1 next to some photos from yesterday afternoon. I think you'll see a difference too.





Last Thoughts on Guangzhou

We have now spent about 10 days here in Guangzhou and we leave tomorrow. Though it's been very nice here, we're really looking forward to getting home and getting on w/ our lives w/ the rest of our family. I must admit, it's been nice to have breakfast cooked for us every morning, and our apartment cleaned every day too. But there's more to life than a clean apartment and breakfast! Guangzhou is surprisingly modern, even more so than when we were here 3 years ago. Compared to being in Lanzhou, this is not what you think of when you think "China".

The subway system here is excellent. Super clean, fast, efficient and cheap (like 70 cents). You can get almost anywhere you need to go in the city. We were surprised as well to find that people actually stood up so we could sit down w/ the baby. Is it true that someone's actually been teaching the Chinese some manners? (But they still do cut in line when you're trying to buy your ticket.) The hotel apartment we've been staying in is very modern w/ excellent service as well. This one really does fit the 5-star standards, unlike the hotel in Lanzhou. The shopping malls are crazy huge (there's two we could walk to from here). We were always surprised when we were able to find our way out of those mall mazes. Though the air here is not so clean, there are surprisingly not that many public smokers and we've seen very few spitters either :), and only one snot-rocket! They're building like crazy. Building cranes fill the sky and we listen to construction building all night long (they work 24/7). I expect that if we have the opportunity to return when the girls are older, we will visit a much different city.

It's super HOT and HUMID here. Almost unbearable, so we try to stay inside, or use the subway tunnels to walk from one place to another. Here's Mike looking kinda dorky. I think he was the only guy in the city carrying an umbrella, but he was trying to shade Kari from the sun. Come to think of it, he was probably only one of maybe three guys in the whole city carrying a baby on his back too :). Good thing is, when it's hot here, boba tea is cheap! About a dollar. Mmmm... my favorite. Oh, and from our hotel there are like 3 Starbucks w/in walking distance! Talk about modern. But Starbucks is even more expensive than it is in the States - about $3 for an iced coffee.

Just for kicks, we have to include some funny random photos.


Thursday, September 18, 2008

Party Time!

While waiting in Guangzhou, we've had many opportunities to celebrate :). Our tour guides like to party and always want to show us a good time. A few nights ago we went on a dinner cruise on the Pearl River which runs through Guangzhou. It was quite hot and humid (as usual), but the food was tasty and we enjoyed the evening lights and views from the deck above.




Tonight we had our "Goodbye Party" because one of the families will be leaving tomorrow. We had dinner and Karaoke singing. Yes, here's a picture of Mike hamming it up. Kari and I stuck to just eating and drinking :). Since some of the group is leaving tomorrow, we're on our own for the next 4 days. Not sure what we're going to do to. Personally, I wish we could just head home and be with our family, but since we don't have Kari's Visa until Tuesday, I guess that's not an option! We'll try to spend some time with the other 5 families as they'll be hanging around here too. Oh, I had to include this picture of Warren. He's the only little boy adopted on this trip (out of 7 babies). He's a real cutie - a gentle giant at only 10 months old.


Micaiah and Mimi, we took this picture for you. It was in the elevator. Do you notice anything different about it?

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Autumn Moon Festival

We arrived in Guangzhou just in time to celebrate the Autumn Moon Festival on Sunday. For the Autumn Moon Festival, people gather together with their families to celebrate (sort of like we do for Thanksgiving). Lanterns are hung everywhere and Moon Cakes are given and eaten. Karis (we've been calling her by her nickname "Xiao Xiao" since that's what she responds best to) enjoyed munching on Moon Cake (see picture). Here's also a picture of Kari w/ her lantern.



























Kari's really come a long way in a week. She's now eating really well and sleepin
g on a more regular schedule (rather than sleeping all day b/c she was so depressed). This morning was a major break through. When I went to pick her up out of her crib, she actually smiled at me! Hooray!!! She's also been babbling, giving kisses, and playing with toys. We're starting to see her true personality come out - she's very sweet, and more on the quiet observant side. But we do know she has it in her for a good fit too - yes, she had one of those over the TV remote being taken away :). Though the wait here in Guangzhou is really a wait for her Visa to enter the US, we're thankful for the time we have to focus on Kari (though we do miss Micaiah, Mimi, and Lydia like crazy!) Only one more week now till we can all be a family together again.
Is that a SMILE?

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Update on the Chau Kids

Gigi and Boppy have now survived one whole week of the 3 Chau children! Actually they've more than survived, they've outdone themselves - keeping up with their regular school schedule and taking them to San Diego as well! We're not sure Micaiah, Mimi, and Lydia will even want us to come back! We're so thankful that our children have such great grandparents with whom they can have such a close relationship. We know both we and our children are blessed. They've even set up a day by day blog to keep us in the loop. If you want to take a look, you can see it at http://chaukids.blogspot.com. We've enjoyed keeping up w/ the kids via Skype Video on a nearly daily basis. Even enjoyed sitting through dinner w/ the whole family a couple of times. Please continue to pray for our kids and their grandparents. 10 more days to go!